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January 19th, 2020, 19:51 #11
Let’s just say, theoretically, I am the victim of some sort of abuse. And it seems to me as though some role playing might head in that direction. It is making me uncomfortable. And to admit to such even in a virtual environment compounds my anxiety. An anonymous way to get the DMs attention, might be helpful.
All I really need to know is if the tool exists for FG. My question has been answered. Thanks all. Should I find the time, I’ll make the extension.
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January 19th, 2020, 20:17 #12
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I have to agree with Minty. I'm no expert on this, but I would welcome a tool that helps make these situations easier to deal with.
It's not always obvious or clear when there's a problem for someone else, and it can be VERY difficult to speak up when there is a situation that calls for it. This isn't just about identifying generally-troublesome player behavior, but also about when a topic comes up that is troublesome for someone. That can be very different for different people and often goes unnoticed by the majority of the group.
When DM'ing, I've often been oblivious to obvious cues from players about even simple things, like the need for a bio-break. I would not be happy to have someone drop out of a game because they were uncomfortable with part of the game and I hadn't noticed. I'd rather know sooner and keep a friend.
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January 19th, 2020, 20:22 #13
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Like I said, I play with adults. If someone has an issue, they can speak up, either during the session or between game sessions. That's what being an adult is.
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January 19th, 2020, 20:33 #14
Anyone can already send a private message to the DM or via whatever voice chat program is being used. But as I said, if someone wants to make an extension for use and a DM wants to enable it, well, your game your decision.
Personally I'd hope that a player would reach out and chat with me or have a sidebar if there's a issue."I am a Canadian, free to speak without fear, free to worship in my own way, free to stand for what I think right, free to oppose what I believe wrong, or free to choose those who shall govern my country. This heritage of freedom I pledge to uphold for myself and all mankind."
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RIP Canada, February 21, 2022
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January 19th, 2020, 20:35 #15
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That’s not always possible in the moment, when it matters, before harm is done. Also, a chat/whisper to the DM would not be anonymous.
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January 19th, 2020, 20:41 #16
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Ok, but you seem to be objecting to the idea of the features being discussed. If so, what exactly would the existence of these features take away from your game?
If you’re not objecting to the features, great, but then your point seems to be that anyone who does want or need these isn’t “an adult.” I hope that’s not your point, as that could come across as quite insulting.
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